I initially started college as a physics major, but during my first semester of my final year of university, I decided to switch my career path to clinical psychology. The process of realizing that psychology was the best path for me took a lot of thought and I want to share with you the steps that I took to make this huge decision.
I like to think of the process that I endured as a hard conversation with myself. I believe weâve all had this talk at some point in our lives, whether it was conscious or not. Feeling uncertain about selecting the best decision often feels scary, overwhelming, and confusing. On top of these negative emotions, people often fear the idea of change. Sure, getting a new haircut post-breakup is one category of change, but moving across the country to obtain your dream job is definitely a bigger and riskier change. For these reasons, many of us choose to continue with our current life path, as itâs routine and not uncertain. However, I challenge you to have this difficult conversation with yourself, as the rewards can greatly outweigh the challenge. Here are some steps I personally took when deciding on whether or not to switch my career paths:
- List out all the rewards (be it material, intellectual, spiritual, etc.) that the current goal engenders that are appealing to you.
- Articulate in detail why those rewards are personally appealing.
- Contemplate whether this change of heart is permanent. Specifically, is this change following a recent event that had an impact on you? For example, if you recently went through a breakup and decided to move across the country, there may be other reasons for this decision. Take time with carrying out your ideas and try to acknowledge if there are any hidden motives for your decision.
- List out the possible unpleasant or unwanted consequences of your goal and describe why those components are personally displeasing.
Essentially this list is an in-depth pros and cons list to help you determine the benefits and struggles that you may encounter from obtaining this goal or making a drastic change in lifestyle. However, making a pros and cons list may not be enough in assisting you with your decision on whether or not to pursue this change. You might also want to ask yourself the following questions:
- What is the worst that could happen if I pursue this goal or change? Am I willing to experience this outcome and grow from it?
- What is the best thing that could happen if I pursue this goal or change? Will I be happy if I do not meet this outcome?
- What do those closest to me think about this choice? If they don’t support my decision, would I be able to accept it?
- How committed am I with to this decision and completing the required steps to achieve this goal?
- Will I be proud of myself if I make this choice? Does this choice align with my personal values and beliefs?
- What is the impact of this decision financially? Am I financially capable to do this?
Although these questions may be difficult to answer, they will help you determine if your reasoning is rational and provide you with insight into whether or not this change would be the best fit for you. Remember, you have the power to change your life at any given moment!
By:Â Ruihong Yuan
Ruihong is a graduateÂ from University of Toronto with a major in Psychology and Physics. He is currentlyÂ looking to gain either clinical or research experiences in psychology. His goal is to become a clinical psychologist with his own practice and research in order to help people improve their lives and explore the mysterious human mind.